Just a quick note before my next blog post: I have received a few emails in response to my post about Agii’s situation, with generous offers to donate money, I’m just waiting to hear back from a friend in Mongolia who I hope can help me. As soon as that’s figured out, I should have a way to take donations to give to Agii and his family. Also, I’ve taken hundreds more pictures that I have yet to post and/or upload to my blog so I will try to put some more up or at least put up the links to my Facebook albums.
Continuing, here’s another update on other things that have been going on in Cambodia. As previously noted, I wasn’t particularly happy teaching at the private school during the days and as the days went by, I found myself increasingly miserable and no longer enthusiastic about teaching. I dreaded going to school most days and I had a really hard time motivating myself to prepare for lessons, to even care whether or not the students learned anything (not than many of them cared, especially the 10th grade students). One day I just decided I’d had enough and I informed my principal that I’d no longer be teaching at Sovannaphumi school. He was a bit surprised and disappointed but was understanding. After I notified him he asked me to stick around for one more week while he looked for a replacement. I agreed and spent one more week teaching before I happily finished my last day. The past couple months, in addition to my time spent in Mongolia, have made me realize that I have no desire to be a teacher ever again. At first it was fun, I’ve had good experiences and I’m glad I’ve been given the opportunities I’ve had and I’ve met some amazing students, teachers and friends, but teaching is not something I will ever do again once I leave Cambodia. I no longer have the passion or patience for it and my experiences have lead me to a new found respect for all the good teachers around the world, especially my teachers growing up that had to put up with my nonsense.
These thoughts and reflections have lead me to further thought on development work, something I always thought I’d be interested in and passionate about. Admittedly, my experiences in Mongolia and Cambodia have had me reevaluating which direction(s) I want to take my life. For the longest time I always though I’d finish Peace Corps, get a masters in international relations and go work overseas as a Foreign Service officer, USAID officer or some other similar career field. The more free time I’ve had to think about my future (especially since I just recently turned 28), the more soul searching I’ve done and I’ve also realized increasingly that I’m not sure if development work or even international aid/diplomacy is something I am interested in continuing/pursuing. I feel in a lot of ways that I’ve lost my motivation and my once strong idealism has been crushed, leaving me lost and unsure of where I want to go and what I want to do with my life. This is not to say that I’m in some state of emotional disarray, just that I’m trying to find my way and in the next few months/years I am interested in trying new things, experimenting, and learning about and studying things that I’ve always been interested in but was maybe too afraid to pursue in the past. Right now I’m reading some books on personal fitness and health/well being, trying to learn more about exercise, weight training, physical and mental health, and I’m taking much of my free time to work out. I’ve been working with dumbbells, a jump rope, Taebo and Pilates workout dvds, jogging early every morning, doing a lot of pushups and crunches, and making changes to my diet to improve my overall health. I don’t know that I’d ever learn enough to become some type of personal trainer but it’s definitely something I find fun, interesting, and of course healthy and I’d like to continue to learn more and focus on spending the rest of my life living an active and healthy lifestyle. I figure since I’m here for a little over two months and I’m only going to be working part time, I’d like to take advantage of all this free time to focus on my personal fitness, learning as much as possible so I can continue and learn/experience more when I get back to the U.S.
I have some ideas that I’m interested in trying out and pursuing after I leave Cambodia (and I’m sure I’ll discuss them in more detail in the near future) but in the meanwhile I’m going to continue to teach at New World part time, focus on my personal fitness, and read as many books as I can get my hands on. I just finished “Sleeping With the Devil: How Washington Sold Our Soul for Saudi Crude” by Robert Baer, a very interesting, albeit disturbing book, about the United States’ relationship with Saudi Arabia. I have been slowly working my way through Howard Zinn’s “A People’s History of the United States” and am also alternating between Ernesto ‘Che’ Guevara’s “Motorcycle Diaries” and “Hunting Down Saddam: The Inside Story of the Hunt and Capture” by Robin Moore. Oh and I just started reading "The Body Sculpting Bible for Men" a pretty interesting book on fitness/exercise/bodybuilding.
Last weekend Hanna and I made a weekend trip to Siem Reap to see Angkor Wat, which was one of the best weekends of my life. I will write more about that trip and put up some pictures in my next blog post. In the meanwhile, here is a link to one of my Facebook photo albums, with 135 pictures from the past two months in Cambodia.
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2079259&id=72206395&l=bb8e7c154a
Be Excellent To Each Other. A blog by Matthew Becker.
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Cambodia, two months later
It’s been a while since my last blog post and the main reason for that is my concern over my inability to put my thoughts and feelings from the past two months accurately into words. After countless hours lost in thought and struggling with what I want to say exactly and how I want to say it, here goes.
When I first came to Cambodia, I had a great impression of the country and the people. It was new, it was interesting, and it was so different from Mongolia. I wish I could say that my feelings haven’t changed drastically, but unfortunately that is not the case. The more time I’ve spent in Cambodia, the more I’ve learned about the country and the more I’ve learned about the country’s vast and disturbing problems, through interactions with locals and other foreigners who live here, through the limited work I’ve done and through my own observations.
Just one more thing before I continue: While I was a Peace Corps volunteer in Mongolia, I chose to put my words on my blog through a sort of ‘filter’, one because of me being a Peace Corps volunteer and trying to maintain a certain sense of professionalism and two because for a period of time, albeit a short one, Mongolia was my home and I of course wanted to present as positive an image as possible to my friends, family, and people back home. I tried not to focus on the negative so much and my frustrations with my work, the people, the culture, the country, etc. As I am no longer a Peace Corps volunteer and I feel more comfortable writing about certain subjects, I am not going to filter my words or hold back my thoughts about Cambodia and future travels/experiences.
As I started to mention above, my impression of Cambodia has changed drastically over the past couple of months. I have learned so much more about the country, the people, the culture, and problems. Cambodia is a very poor country, with a GDP ranked somewhere between 132 and 155 out of the almost 200 recognized countries, depending on which source you rely on. When you walk around Phnom Penh, there are signs of development everywhere, cell phone and mobile provider shops on every street, travel agencies, nice restaurants and bars, shopping malls, and countless convenience stores, small businesses, arts and craft shops, and NGOs. It’s also not uncommon to see massive, oversized Hummers and Toyota and Lexus SUVs, pushing their way through narrow streets crowded with motos(scooters that most of the population rides around the city on). I have seen countless Mercedes, BMW, Lexus, and Land Rover vehicles cruising around the city, in addition to the occasional Porsche (we’re talking brand new vehicles, cars that typically run 90 to 120k in the U.S.), on the same streets where numerous impoverished families beg for money while holding their malnourished children. Walking down many city streets you can find massive villas owned by Cambodia’s wealthy elite class, homes that would easily cost millions back in the U.S. Take a turn onto another street and you can walk past virtual shanty towns, crowded with large families or public parks where homeless Khmers convene and sleep. The contrast between the poverty of much of the city/country and the wealthy elite upper class is very obvious the more you walk around the city. The more you see, the more signs there are and the more obvious it becomes. The people who have money seem very determined to show it off here, with ‘designer’ clothes and ridiculously large, expensive and unnecessary luxury SUVs that crowd the streets, and of course the massive, lavish villas surrounded by gates lined with concertina wire.
In addition to the incredible disparity in wealth distribution, there are reportedly over 3,600 NGOs operating in Cambodia. I haven’t found a source for this online but I’ve been told this by a few teachers and NGO workers who’ve been in Cambodia for a few years. Everything I’ve seen and heard points to this being pretty accurate. Also from what I’ve been told, many of these NGOs are corrupt and/or incompetent, often just a shady business set up under the guise of an NGO name to increase profits and ‘credibility’. Before I came to Cambodia I was very interested in looking for some work or volunteer work with an NGO but the more I’ve learned, the more I’ve become disenchanted with the idea of NGO work, especially here. This is not to say that there aren’t some good NGOs doing good work in Cambodia, it’s just been really frustrating and disturbing to learn more about it.
Perhaps the most disturbing thing to learn about and/or witness in Cambodia is prostitution, sex workers and ‘the virginity trade’ and just the way women are treated in general. Because of poverty and limited work opportunities, many lower class women are forced to work as prostitutes. Prostitution is technically illegal in Cambodia but you can see the signs of it everywhere. Cafes, massage parlors, clubs, karaoke clubs/restaurants and hotels are all used as covers for brothels or available prostitution ‘services’. Both Khmer men and foreigners frequent these facilities and it’s not uncommon to see many of these ‘clubs’ packed from 4:00 in the afternoon until very late at night. I’ve been propositioned numerous times by girls who are clearly ‘working’ walking around the streets of Phnom Penh, by myself and even when walking with my girlfriend. At first it was kinda funny, reminding me of jokes I’d heard or of stereotypes portrayed in many movies about Southeast Asia. The more I learned about the ‘trade’ here and how things work, the less funny and more disturbing it became. From what I’ve heard and witnessed in films documenting the intricacies of the Cambodian sex trade, prostitution is treated as the same type of problem as sex/human trafficking. Apparently, Cambodia was under pressure from the U.S. to crack down on trafficking in order to receive some support of aid and the Cambodian government’s response was to treat prostitution and sex trafficking as the same problem. Because of this, ‘legitimate’ brothels were closed down and women who worked as prostitutes were forced to go more ‘underground’ and work at these institutions that act as fronts. Women were arrested and fined just for carrying condoms in their wallet or purse, leading to more prostitutes having unprotected sex and contracting various diseases, including HIV. Also, these women are treated very poorly and are often abused by their customers and those in charge of them at ‘work’.
The ‘virginity trade’ is another thing I learned about initially through a documentary on Cambodia. Apparently many Khmer men (this isn’t just limited to a certain class) believe that having sex with a virgin will make them more attractive and allow them to live longer. Because of this so called ‘cultural’ belief, many men will pay hundreds to thousands of dollars to sleep with a virgin. Wealthy men will do this frequently and the less wealthy men will save for months or years just to have an opportunity to sleep with a virgin. These virgins are typically young women who come from very poor families and are usually in desperate need of some quick cash to help their family or pay for treatment for a sick relative. In other cases, these women are tricked into it by a ‘friend’ or family member. Needless to say, learning of this made me sick, angry and frustrated. This, in addition to learning more and more about the way Khmer men view women and their ‘cultural norms’, has left me very disenchanted.
Similar to many countries/cultures in the Middle East, men are allowed to have sex and sleep around before marriage and nobody cares. Women, however, are expected to remain virgins until marriage (doesn’t this seem very odd in a country where men pay to sleep with multiple virgins?) and are considered to be tarnished or damaged goods if they are sexually active prior to marriage. “Men are like gold, women are like a white cloth” (an old Khmer proverb). When soiled or tarnished, a white cloth is not easily cleaned. Gold on the other hand, is easily cleaned(disturbing and disgusting? I couldn’t agree more). If a woman is raped, it often isn’t reported because the woman will be blamed and it will bring the woman’s family shame. I’ve heard about this happening in Turkey and other areas of the Middle East but also in Cambodia, if a girl or woman is raped, she is encouraged to try to marry the man who raped her to save her family from shame. Now, as I’ve done some traveling and lived overseas for a couple years, I am one to often do my best to understand and respect other cultures and their norms but I draw the line in places where women are treated as second class citizens, under the guise of ‘cultural norms’ and/or religion. I don’t believe it’s a coincidence that the most developed countries in the world, the United States, Canada, Western Europe, Australia, Korea and Japan, etc., women are treated with respect for the most part and are given equal opportunities and equal rights. While I still believe that corruption is probably the biggest obstacle to developing countries making significant progress, I also believe that a society that educates its women, treats them as equal to men, and gives them the utmost respect, is a society that will progress and evolve. As long as certain countries continue to treat their women like shit, under the guise of culture and/or religion, they will continue to remain undeveloped. (I know that some people might nitpick about certain details and say that women are not all treated as equal to men in the developed world, but I would encourage those people to spend time in the developing world to understand where I’m coming from.)
I have more to say and I will continue in my next post, as soon as possible. I also will continue to post pictures and write about my experiences living here, as I will still be here until September. If you have any commentary or questions, please feel free to leave a comment or send me an email.
When I first came to Cambodia, I had a great impression of the country and the people. It was new, it was interesting, and it was so different from Mongolia. I wish I could say that my feelings haven’t changed drastically, but unfortunately that is not the case. The more time I’ve spent in Cambodia, the more I’ve learned about the country and the more I’ve learned about the country’s vast and disturbing problems, through interactions with locals and other foreigners who live here, through the limited work I’ve done and through my own observations.
Just one more thing before I continue: While I was a Peace Corps volunteer in Mongolia, I chose to put my words on my blog through a sort of ‘filter’, one because of me being a Peace Corps volunteer and trying to maintain a certain sense of professionalism and two because for a period of time, albeit a short one, Mongolia was my home and I of course wanted to present as positive an image as possible to my friends, family, and people back home. I tried not to focus on the negative so much and my frustrations with my work, the people, the culture, the country, etc. As I am no longer a Peace Corps volunteer and I feel more comfortable writing about certain subjects, I am not going to filter my words or hold back my thoughts about Cambodia and future travels/experiences.
As I started to mention above, my impression of Cambodia has changed drastically over the past couple of months. I have learned so much more about the country, the people, the culture, and problems. Cambodia is a very poor country, with a GDP ranked somewhere between 132 and 155 out of the almost 200 recognized countries, depending on which source you rely on. When you walk around Phnom Penh, there are signs of development everywhere, cell phone and mobile provider shops on every street, travel agencies, nice restaurants and bars, shopping malls, and countless convenience stores, small businesses, arts and craft shops, and NGOs. It’s also not uncommon to see massive, oversized Hummers and Toyota and Lexus SUVs, pushing their way through narrow streets crowded with motos(scooters that most of the population rides around the city on). I have seen countless Mercedes, BMW, Lexus, and Land Rover vehicles cruising around the city, in addition to the occasional Porsche (we’re talking brand new vehicles, cars that typically run 90 to 120k in the U.S.), on the same streets where numerous impoverished families beg for money while holding their malnourished children. Walking down many city streets you can find massive villas owned by Cambodia’s wealthy elite class, homes that would easily cost millions back in the U.S. Take a turn onto another street and you can walk past virtual shanty towns, crowded with large families or public parks where homeless Khmers convene and sleep. The contrast between the poverty of much of the city/country and the wealthy elite upper class is very obvious the more you walk around the city. The more you see, the more signs there are and the more obvious it becomes. The people who have money seem very determined to show it off here, with ‘designer’ clothes and ridiculously large, expensive and unnecessary luxury SUVs that crowd the streets, and of course the massive, lavish villas surrounded by gates lined with concertina wire.
In addition to the incredible disparity in wealth distribution, there are reportedly over 3,600 NGOs operating in Cambodia. I haven’t found a source for this online but I’ve been told this by a few teachers and NGO workers who’ve been in Cambodia for a few years. Everything I’ve seen and heard points to this being pretty accurate. Also from what I’ve been told, many of these NGOs are corrupt and/or incompetent, often just a shady business set up under the guise of an NGO name to increase profits and ‘credibility’. Before I came to Cambodia I was very interested in looking for some work or volunteer work with an NGO but the more I’ve learned, the more I’ve become disenchanted with the idea of NGO work, especially here. This is not to say that there aren’t some good NGOs doing good work in Cambodia, it’s just been really frustrating and disturbing to learn more about it.
Perhaps the most disturbing thing to learn about and/or witness in Cambodia is prostitution, sex workers and ‘the virginity trade’ and just the way women are treated in general. Because of poverty and limited work opportunities, many lower class women are forced to work as prostitutes. Prostitution is technically illegal in Cambodia but you can see the signs of it everywhere. Cafes, massage parlors, clubs, karaoke clubs/restaurants and hotels are all used as covers for brothels or available prostitution ‘services’. Both Khmer men and foreigners frequent these facilities and it’s not uncommon to see many of these ‘clubs’ packed from 4:00 in the afternoon until very late at night. I’ve been propositioned numerous times by girls who are clearly ‘working’ walking around the streets of Phnom Penh, by myself and even when walking with my girlfriend. At first it was kinda funny, reminding me of jokes I’d heard or of stereotypes portrayed in many movies about Southeast Asia. The more I learned about the ‘trade’ here and how things work, the less funny and more disturbing it became. From what I’ve heard and witnessed in films documenting the intricacies of the Cambodian sex trade, prostitution is treated as the same type of problem as sex/human trafficking. Apparently, Cambodia was under pressure from the U.S. to crack down on trafficking in order to receive some support of aid and the Cambodian government’s response was to treat prostitution and sex trafficking as the same problem. Because of this, ‘legitimate’ brothels were closed down and women who worked as prostitutes were forced to go more ‘underground’ and work at these institutions that act as fronts. Women were arrested and fined just for carrying condoms in their wallet or purse, leading to more prostitutes having unprotected sex and contracting various diseases, including HIV. Also, these women are treated very poorly and are often abused by their customers and those in charge of them at ‘work’.
The ‘virginity trade’ is another thing I learned about initially through a documentary on Cambodia. Apparently many Khmer men (this isn’t just limited to a certain class) believe that having sex with a virgin will make them more attractive and allow them to live longer. Because of this so called ‘cultural’ belief, many men will pay hundreds to thousands of dollars to sleep with a virgin. Wealthy men will do this frequently and the less wealthy men will save for months or years just to have an opportunity to sleep with a virgin. These virgins are typically young women who come from very poor families and are usually in desperate need of some quick cash to help their family or pay for treatment for a sick relative. In other cases, these women are tricked into it by a ‘friend’ or family member. Needless to say, learning of this made me sick, angry and frustrated. This, in addition to learning more and more about the way Khmer men view women and their ‘cultural norms’, has left me very disenchanted.
Similar to many countries/cultures in the Middle East, men are allowed to have sex and sleep around before marriage and nobody cares. Women, however, are expected to remain virgins until marriage (doesn’t this seem very odd in a country where men pay to sleep with multiple virgins?) and are considered to be tarnished or damaged goods if they are sexually active prior to marriage. “Men are like gold, women are like a white cloth” (an old Khmer proverb). When soiled or tarnished, a white cloth is not easily cleaned. Gold on the other hand, is easily cleaned(disturbing and disgusting? I couldn’t agree more). If a woman is raped, it often isn’t reported because the woman will be blamed and it will bring the woman’s family shame. I’ve heard about this happening in Turkey and other areas of the Middle East but also in Cambodia, if a girl or woman is raped, she is encouraged to try to marry the man who raped her to save her family from shame. Now, as I’ve done some traveling and lived overseas for a couple years, I am one to often do my best to understand and respect other cultures and their norms but I draw the line in places where women are treated as second class citizens, under the guise of ‘cultural norms’ and/or religion. I don’t believe it’s a coincidence that the most developed countries in the world, the United States, Canada, Western Europe, Australia, Korea and Japan, etc., women are treated with respect for the most part and are given equal opportunities and equal rights. While I still believe that corruption is probably the biggest obstacle to developing countries making significant progress, I also believe that a society that educates its women, treats them as equal to men, and gives them the utmost respect, is a society that will progress and evolve. As long as certain countries continue to treat their women like shit, under the guise of culture and/or religion, they will continue to remain undeveloped. (I know that some people might nitpick about certain details and say that women are not all treated as equal to men in the developed world, but I would encourage those people to spend time in the developing world to understand where I’m coming from.)
I have more to say and I will continue in my next post, as soon as possible. I also will continue to post pictures and write about my experiences living here, as I will still be here until September. If you have any commentary or questions, please feel free to leave a comment or send me an email.
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Sad News, Request for Help
I have been delayed in writing my newest blog update but I need to make a different post in light of recent sad news I've received from my good friend Agii in Olgii, Mongolia. His younger sister Aiman, who just recently gave birth, has a brain tumor. Agii and I have been exchanging emails back and forth over the past week and it seems to be pretty serious. She needs to get an operation as soon as possible and the doctors in Mongolia can't perform the necessary operation safely. Agii is in contact with doctors in Korea and trying to look into doctors/hospitals in Thailand or Germany. Because of the high transportation costs, the high cost of the procedures/medical work, Agii might have to sell his jeep, his home, and his private learning institute to try and cover the costs. I am going to donate some money to help him out and I'd like to see if any friends, family members or followers of my blog would be interested in donating some money to help. I am in contact with some of my friends who are still in Mongolia about how I can get the money to Agii, maybe through something like Paypal and then transfer it from a Peace Corps volunteers' bank account to Agii's bank account. I'm trying to get the details worked out on that but I just wanted to put up some info and see if anyone is interested in donating some money and helping out a great guy. Those of you who've been following my blog for a while have seen numerous posts about Agii and the work him and I did together. He's a great guy, he was one of my best friends in Olgii and I really want to do whatever I can to help. If you are interested in helping out in some way and would like to donate money, anything would help really, please email me at matthewbecker82@gmail.com and I'll get back to you asap with details on how we can get some money to help Agii, Aiman, and their family out. Thanks.
-Matt
-Matt
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Finally, an update!
**Above pics and the new collage at the top of the page are all from the past few weeks in Cambodia and Thailand.**
I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what I would write about my experiences in Cambodia thus far and I’ve been procrastinating over and over on writing this blog post. The longer I’ve waited, the more has happened and the more I have to write about. I feel it’s quite a challenge to write and portray accurately in words, the sights, sounds, smells, and just the experiences and feelings of being in this country. First I’ll write a ‘bit’ about what’s been going on with work and what not, then do my best to describe the country and my feelings about it so far in my next post.
As I wrote in my last blog post, many weeks ago (I apologize), I found a couple jobs within a week of being in the country. For the past few weeks I’ve been working at a private school named Sovannaphumi and a private English learning institute called New World Institute. I am a primary school teacher at Sovannaphumi (I’ll refer to it as SPS) and I teach three different 6th grade classes, two 10th grade classes, and eight (yeah, eight) different kindergarten classes. When I first started the job I figured it would be similar to the way that Hanna and her coworkers teach, with me having my own group of students that I teach every day, one group in the morning and one group in the afternoon. At my school it couldn’t be more different, with me moving from class to class and teaching each class no more than a couple hours a week and all the kindergarten classes, only one hour a week. It was fun at first but over the past couple weeks it has become more stressful and I have been contemplating leaving the school and looking for work with a different organization, no longer in teaching. I had an interview and meeting with a local NGO that works in social enterprise and helps victims of trafficking, for a position as a grant writer, something I do have experience in, but they are looking for someone to fill the position long term. As I am only here until September, it will be difficult to find short term work other than teaching, but my contract with Sovannaphumi is up in early July and I will be working there until then, save the money I make, and see if anything comes up after that.
My other job, as a TOEFL instructor at New World, is pretty fun and I enjoy it a lot more than Sovannaphumi. I work there in the evenings, teaching two classes every night Monday to Friday, one group of 28 students who are really fun, smart and charismatic, and one smaller group of 7 students who are really quiet and shy but very smart. The work at NWI (New World Institute) is fun and very relaxed, with an easy to teach curriculum and students who are there because they want to be. I will definitely continue to teach there part time until I leave Phnom Penh. I make decent money at both jobs and even when I stop working at SPS, the money I make at NWI will allow me to still live somewhat comfortably, especially with Phnom Penh’s low cost of living. When I see how much money we spend on groceries during the week and how much we get, I sometimes think about how lavishly someone could live in this country if they had a real career/well paying job like something in the Foreign Service. We spend about 20 bucks between the two of us for a week’s worth of groceries and that includes fresh fruits and vegetables, oatmeal, cereal, eggs, milk, bread, and other things. It’s pretty crazy. The times that we end up spending the most money is on weekends when we go out to one of the many delicious restaurants around the city. You can get a great Khmer meal for a couple bucks and there are some fast food style places for cheap with burgers, fries, fried chicken, milkshakes, etc. and there are some western style bar/grill/restaurants that tend to be a bit pricier but have really good food.
Outside of work and eating, I try to spend as much time as possible working out and reading. I have been using my dumbbells and jump rope when I have free time, we’ve been swimming a few times, and today I used a really nice hotel’s fitness center and pool, which was really nice. We’re looking into buying a package deal where you can spend one amount and use the gym 12 or 20 times over a period of time, which seems like a pretty decent deal. One of my personal goals over the next few months is to get into the best shape of my life while I’m here. I have been slacking a bit and I haven’t been working out as much as I’d like but with how much I work, it’s hard to stay on track. I think with being able to use a gym/fitness center on the weekends, it will be easier to reach my goal and come July, I’ll have a lot more free time to do the things I want to do, i.e. working out and reading as much as possible before I come back to the U.S.
During one of the first weekends I was in the country, one of Hanna’s teachers’ assistants invited us to go to Sihanoukville, a town by the beach, southwest of Phnom Penh for a couple days. We went with her and her family, taking a five hour van ride down and spending a day and a half by the beach, swimming in the ocean, getting some sun, and eating a lot of fresh seafood. We tried a delicious fruit we’d never had before called ‘mangosteen’, ate more shrimp than I’ve ever had in my life and really enjoyed ourselves, spending some good quality time with a Khmer family. On the way back we stopped at a river/picnic site and ate some more, did some more swimming and exploring and I of course, took a lot of pictures. A couple weeks later, for my birthday weekend, Hanna, myself and a few friends of ours went to Koh Chang, Thailand. Koh Chang was a place that Hanna and I really enjoyed on our trip to Thailand and this time we went when there were a lot less tourists and we stayed on the more popular, less isolate white sands part of the island. Being that it was my birthday, Hanna made the trip part of my birthday present and covered all of my expenses, which was really, really nice. We ate a lot of good food, did some more swimming in the ocean, got some sun, and spent some tine at a really nice waterfall in the jungle. My birthday, which was on a Monday (in Phnom Penh), was really nice too, as we went to a nice private pool, had some good Mexican food, and I had a massive sub sandwich, and custom birthday cupcakes. Needless to stay, it was a wonderful birthday that lasted a few days. Thanks Hanna.
I’ve taken hundreds of pictures since I arrived in the country and I’ve seen a lot of things that I still need to take pictures of. I need to remember to bring my camera everywhere I go. I have put a decent amount of pictures on my Facebook account so anyone who is on my FB friends list should check those out. When I have some more time online, I’ll see about putting my Cambodia and Koh Chang photos in one of my Photobucket accounts. Pics and new updates coming as soon as possible!
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Delays and Apologies
Just wanted to make a quick note to apologize for the lack of updates lately on the blog. I have been very busy and I don't have regular access to internet. I have been writing a lot lately when I have time and making notes of things, taking pictures, etc. so as soon as I can put a nice detailed blog post together, I will put it up soon. Life is busy but good for the most part! :)
-Matt
-Matt
Friday, April 30, 2010
Cambodia
After a little over a week enjoying the company of friends and family in Colorado, I arrived in Phnom Penh, Cambodia, last Tuesday. Hanna greeted me at the airport and we took a ‘tuk tuk’ to the apartment Hanna moved into recently, where we will be living the next few months. I knew it was a bit foolish but before I arrived in Cambodia, I had this idea in my head of Cambodia looking similar to Bangkok, Thailand. I knew that Cambodia is not as developed as Thailand but I was still surprised by the lack of massive skyscrapers, freeways, and the impressive infrastructure that amazed me during my time in Bangkok. I still found the sites, sounds and smell of the city to be very interesting as we made the half hour ride to the apartment.
Through emails and Hanna’s descriptions I had an idea of what our apartment was like before I arrived but I was pleasantly surprised when I first entered the apartment. It’s very nice, spacious and comfortable. It’s close to twice the size of my apartment in Olgii and a very different style. Everything is ‘open’, which is a bit hard to explain, so I’ll put up some pictures (asap). The apartment is on the third floor and has a main living area with some chairs, stools, tables, a bed which we use as a couch and a television. Ahh yes, television: that amazing marvel of technology which I have been living without for almost two years. I didn’t watch a lot of TV when I was back in the U.S. but after living without one for so long, I have to admit that it’s hard not to lose a couple hours watching one of three (THREE!) National Geographic channels, especially since I haven’t started working yet.
My impression of Cambodia and the Khmer (pronounced Kuhmai) people has been very good thus far. I find the people here to be absolutely wonderful. Everyone seems to have a happy disposition and the Khmer people, young and old are quick to greet you with a big, warm smile. This does wonders for my own disposition and I find myself frequently in a happy mood as I wander the streets of Phnom Penh, even with the ridiculous heat. ;) All of the people I’ve met through Hanna, both Khmer and foreigners, have been friendly and fun to interact with. I went to Hanna’s school a few times and spent time observing her class, helping whenever I could and her first grade students are incredible. They are cute, sweet, smart, and fun to be around. I was blown away at the fact that these children, aged six to ten, could understand pretty much everything Hanna and I said, and responded accordingly in excellent English. The kids refer to me as ‘teacher Matthew’ and always seem excited when they see me. Hanna seems to really enjoy teaching them and she has a great relationship with her students.
Although it’s been nice to relax, enjoy Cambodia and enjoy time with Hanna, I came here to work. I made contacts with a few organizations before I arrived in Phnom Penh and I’ve turned in my resume at a few places over the past few days. I am in contact with a small Canadian run NGO called ‘Action to End Exploitation’ and if things go as planned I should be doing some volunteering with them over the next few months. They work to help women and children who’ve been victim sex trafficking or who’ve come from brothels. It’s a small organization that currently has some local staff and one American volunteer, who I will hopefully be meeting with this week to see how things work. I also recently found out about an internship opening for the UN, working in human rights, starting in June or July. I submitted my resume for that position, which is something I’d really love to do, but I also need to finish filling out an application form and submit that. I’ll be finishing that up tonight. I made contact with an organization called ‘New World Institute’(NWI) which is a private English learning and TOEFL test prep organization. Hanna is friends with the director of studies and I ended up already teaching a substitute class last night, then got a job offer to teach in the evenings. Today I had an interview with a private school and ended up getting a job offer to teach young adults in the mornings and afternoons, starting part time. The hours are really convenient, the pay is pretty darn good, and it seems like a great school. I am going to take the job and I will start the day after tomorrow. I am excited about this great opportunity and I am looking forward to beginning work. I think with the hours at this job, I’ll still be able to do volunteer work and keep myself very busy and productive. The private school, named ‘Sovannaphumi School’ (I’ll refer to it in future blog posts as SPS to make things easier), also asked me to teach a extra hours in the late afternoons/early evenings so now I need to decide if I’m going to take those extra hours or take the evening classes at NWI. I have to figure things out in the next few days and I will do my best to keep the blog updated regularly as things progress. My internet access is currently limited to whenever I have time to visit the internet café and Hanna and I are looking into whether or not getting internet for the apartment is worthwhile. Stay tuned for updates and pictures. :)
Through emails and Hanna’s descriptions I had an idea of what our apartment was like before I arrived but I was pleasantly surprised when I first entered the apartment. It’s very nice, spacious and comfortable. It’s close to twice the size of my apartment in Olgii and a very different style. Everything is ‘open’, which is a bit hard to explain, so I’ll put up some pictures (asap). The apartment is on the third floor and has a main living area with some chairs, stools, tables, a bed which we use as a couch and a television. Ahh yes, television: that amazing marvel of technology which I have been living without for almost two years. I didn’t watch a lot of TV when I was back in the U.S. but after living without one for so long, I have to admit that it’s hard not to lose a couple hours watching one of three (THREE!) National Geographic channels, especially since I haven’t started working yet.
My impression of Cambodia and the Khmer (pronounced Kuhmai) people has been very good thus far. I find the people here to be absolutely wonderful. Everyone seems to have a happy disposition and the Khmer people, young and old are quick to greet you with a big, warm smile. This does wonders for my own disposition and I find myself frequently in a happy mood as I wander the streets of Phnom Penh, even with the ridiculous heat. ;) All of the people I’ve met through Hanna, both Khmer and foreigners, have been friendly and fun to interact with. I went to Hanna’s school a few times and spent time observing her class, helping whenever I could and her first grade students are incredible. They are cute, sweet, smart, and fun to be around. I was blown away at the fact that these children, aged six to ten, could understand pretty much everything Hanna and I said, and responded accordingly in excellent English. The kids refer to me as ‘teacher Matthew’ and always seem excited when they see me. Hanna seems to really enjoy teaching them and she has a great relationship with her students.
Although it’s been nice to relax, enjoy Cambodia and enjoy time with Hanna, I came here to work. I made contacts with a few organizations before I arrived in Phnom Penh and I’ve turned in my resume at a few places over the past few days. I am in contact with a small Canadian run NGO called ‘Action to End Exploitation’ and if things go as planned I should be doing some volunteering with them over the next few months. They work to help women and children who’ve been victim sex trafficking or who’ve come from brothels. It’s a small organization that currently has some local staff and one American volunteer, who I will hopefully be meeting with this week to see how things work. I also recently found out about an internship opening for the UN, working in human rights, starting in June or July. I submitted my resume for that position, which is something I’d really love to do, but I also need to finish filling out an application form and submit that. I’ll be finishing that up tonight. I made contact with an organization called ‘New World Institute’(NWI) which is a private English learning and TOEFL test prep organization. Hanna is friends with the director of studies and I ended up already teaching a substitute class last night, then got a job offer to teach in the evenings. Today I had an interview with a private school and ended up getting a job offer to teach young adults in the mornings and afternoons, starting part time. The hours are really convenient, the pay is pretty darn good, and it seems like a great school. I am going to take the job and I will start the day after tomorrow. I am excited about this great opportunity and I am looking forward to beginning work. I think with the hours at this job, I’ll still be able to do volunteer work and keep myself very busy and productive. The private school, named ‘Sovannaphumi School’ (I’ll refer to it in future blog posts as SPS to make things easier), also asked me to teach a extra hours in the late afternoons/early evenings so now I need to decide if I’m going to take those extra hours or take the evening classes at NWI. I have to figure things out in the next few days and I will do my best to keep the blog updated regularly as things progress. My internet access is currently limited to whenever I have time to visit the internet café and Hanna and I are looking into whether or not getting internet for the apartment is worthwhile. Stay tuned for updates and pictures. :)
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Fun Times With Friends, Enjoying Freedom
Downtown Colorado Springs with Ben and Tino
Hitting the driving range with some friends
Zack :)
Jack, it's been really nice seeing my dogs :)
Getting together with old friends. Murf, Derek, Tim and Ben
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